Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Bring It On

Nobody ever told me that divorce is hell
until I made up my mind
and then I heard it twice in a week.

Well thanks for the advice but
how the hell do you know?

I have a saying for you too.

A change is as good as a rest.


Paul said...

Hell? No, not in my experience.

For me divorce was a huge relief, a new beginning and the best thing in my entire life. It was an amazing opportunity for growth, hope and a second chance at life. Tough? Yes. Hell? Not compared to the previous 25 years.

Best wishes!

arcolaura said...

Thanks Paul. So far I sense relief all round. Tough realizations, tough decisions, but nothing like the daily struggle that was before. In some ways my options have narrowed down tremendously, but there is still a great sense of freedom, because now the limits I face are not imposed; they are just what is.

Madcap said...

All the best to all of you. These aren't easy decisions, but they're yours to make and nobody else has your experience of being you, and being in your marriage.

arcolaura said...

Oh so true Madcap - thanks.

Hope you are getting some spring weather - send it on to us please!

Tim Hodgens said...

One chapter ends, another begins.

Enjoy the ride.


arcolaura said...

Thanks Tim - how are things? You've been kind of quiet on the blogs...

Garth said...

Divorce is hell.